Stepfamily Problem List - Female Norms

Introduction:
	If you are a female, complete this survey to see how your ratings compare to ratings provided by other women living in a stepfamily.

	If you are a male, click here.

Instructions:
	There is a total of 48 questions. Every question requires an answer. Select the answer that best fits your present circumstances using the following key:

1 = No Problem - Issues are easily addressed and resolved

10 = Severe Problem - Issues are difficult or impossible to address and continually resurface.

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Question 1: Parenting
Select a number below to show the degree of difficulty you are having with Parenting. Remember, a higher number indicates more difficulty.
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Question 2: Couple Time
Select a number below to show the degree of difficulty you are having with Couple Time.
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Question 3: Visitation
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Visitation.
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Question 4: Discipline
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Discipline.
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Question 5: Family Time
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Family Time.
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Question 6: His Ex
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with His Ex.
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Question 7: Her Ex
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Her Ex.
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Question 8: Trust
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Trust.
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Question 9: Intimacy
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Intimacy.
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Question 10: Admiration
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Admiration.
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Question 11: Honesty
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Honesty.
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Question 12: Fidelity
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Fidelity.
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Question 13: Sex
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Sex.
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Question 14: Acknowledgement and Recognition
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Acknowledgement and Recognition.
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Question 15: Finances
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Finances.
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Question 16: Privacy
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Privacy.
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Question 17: Money
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Money.
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Question 18: Communication
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Communication.
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Question 19: Scheduling
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Scheduling.
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Question 20: Forgiving
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Forgiving.
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Question 21: Criticism
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Criticism.
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Question 22: Inheritance
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Inheritance.
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Question 23: Rules
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Rules.
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Question 24: Roles
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Roles.
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Question 25: Conversation
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Conversation.
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Question 26: Commitment
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Commitment.
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Question 27: Sharing Housekeeping Responsibilities
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Sharing Housekeeping Responsibilities.
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Question 28: Attractiveness of Spouse
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Attractiveness of Spouse.
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Question 29: Holidays and Special Occasions
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Holidays and Special Occasions.
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Question 30: Caught in the Middle.
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Caught in the Middle.
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Question 31: Anger and Aggression
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Anger and Aggression.
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Question 32: Disrespect
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Disrespect.
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Question 33: Food, Meals and Diet
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Food, Meals and Diet.
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Question 34: Hygiene
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Hygiene.
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Question 35: Sibling/Stepsibling Relations
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Sibling/Stepsibling Relations.
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Question 36: School Problems
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with School Problems.
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Question 37: Involvement with the Police
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Involvement with the Police.
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Question 38: Involvement with the Courts
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Involvement with the Courts.
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Question 39: Fees and Tuition
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Fees and Tuition.
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Question 40: Unfairness
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Unfairness.
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Question 41: Having Fun
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Having Fun.
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Question 42: Recreation
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Recreation.
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Question 43: Extended Family
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Extended Family.
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Question 44: Chores
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Chores.
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Question 45: Change
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Change.
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Question 46: Overly Controlling Behaviour
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Overly Controlling Behaviour.
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Question 47: Affection
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Affection.
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Question 48: Guilt
Show the degree of difficulty you are having with Guilt.
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Stepfamily Problem List Report Female Norms

*Disclaimer*
Due to the many important limitations inherent in inventories such as this, your results should not be regarded as a diagnosis of any kind. At most, they should only be considered as indicating potential problem spots where some focused attention may be warranted.

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Your total score indicates that the overall* intensity of the problems your stepfamily is experiencing is the intensity level most stepfamilies report.* The ratings that appear below, show how your family compares with most stepfamilies across 48 specific problem areas. Problems rated as “more intense” may require some focused attention. However, those rated as “similar” or “less” in intensity are quite likely to clear up on their own, with just the passage of time.

	Subscale	Your Score	Intensity		Subscale	Your Score	Intensity
1.	Parenting			25.	Conversation
2.	Couple time			26.	Commitment
3.	Visitation			27.	Sharing housekeeping responsibilities
4.	Discipline			28.	Attractiveness of spouse
5.	Family time			29.	Holidays and special occasions
6.	His Ex			30.	Caught in the middle
7.	Her Ex			31.	Anger and Aggression
8.	Trust			32.	Disrespect
9.	Intimacy			33.	Food, meals, diet
10.	Admiration			34.	Hygiene
11.	Honesty			35.	Sibling/stepsibling relationships
12.	Fidelity			36.	School problems
13.	Sex			37.	Involvement with the police
14.	Acknowledgement and recognition			38.	Involvement with the courts
15.	Finances			39.	Fees and tuition
16.	Privacy			40.	Unfairness
17.	Money			41.	Having fun
18.	Communication			42.	Recreation
19.	Scheduling			43.	Extended family
20.	Forgiving			44.	Chores
21.	Criticism			45.	Change
22.	Inheritance			46.	Overly controlling behaviour
23.	Rules			47.	Affection
24.	Roles			48.	Guilt

Finally, the top five problems women report are: 1. His Ex, 2. Discipline, 3. Roles, 4. Communication, and 5. Rules.

Stepfamily Problem List - Female Norms

Stepfamily Problem List Report

Female Norms